7 Sure Shot Ways To Get You Out Of A Sex Slump And End That Dry Spell Once And For All
Everyone, once in their lives, gets stuck in a sex slump or a dry spell which may lead to absolute clueless ness on how to end the phase. It could be because you just got out of a long term relationship and weren’t really ready to hit the sack with another person or you just haven’t had enough opportunity with women to have random sex here and there. Whatever it is, it’s really nothing to panic about.
A sexual dry spell can last for a year to a few months or even a few weeks. If you were regular at having sex and are experiencing a slump period, then even a week or two without it may seem unbearable and when you do get out of it, you may be a little confused about re-exploring your sexuality. Especially when you come out of a long term relationship where you’ve been having sex with just one person and want to come out of the slump stage. It’s a tad difficult but definitely achievable.
Here are a few ways you can get back in the game like you never left, to begin with!
Get In Shape
Exercising really helps release a lot of pent-up sexual energy. It’s good to hit the gym or do some yoga to release held up testosterones in order to not rush your sex drive when the times comes. Plus exercising makes you a happier person, so you’re not frustrated or grumpy due to the lack of sex. Exercising also makes you perform and last better in bed, if you haven’t had sex in a while i.e.
Go On At Least 10 Dates Before Having Sex
Due to the dry spell, your expectations to have sex must have risen or lowered so it’s wise to test the waters before diving in. Go on at least 10 dates with different women or the same to figure the aspirations you want to set for yourself and build that confidence you probably lost out on during your dry spell.
You will probably know, through going on different dates, how to go about the game all over again and if you want to indulge in just casual sex or emotionally involving sex or both. Once you build that criteria, your ego and your self confidence will be boosted on its own.
Indulge in ‘Quickies’
Quickies don’t necessarily lead to sex but they lead to sensual stimulation and increase in oxytocin levels. If you’re having a dry spell while in a relationship it is best to indulge in short and intense cuddles or quickies that don’t lead to sex but build anticipation and sexual self esteem. If you’re just going out on dates to build that credibility again, making out sessions or quickies are a good way to get back to your active sex life. It also builds heaps of confidence to eventually go all the way.